For families with minors at home, Social Security can sometimes mean more than one monthly check. That was the surprise for one couple, but commenters on the r/SocialSecurity subreddit said the extra money tied to a 64-year-old father's early filing can also carry long-term tradeoffs.
Here's what to know
In a Reddit thread, the original poster said the family discovered that their 17-, 15-, and 14-year-old children could qualify too, which prompted them to look for a "'catch'" in the system.
Commenters first pointed to the timing of the claim. Filing before full retirement age can permanently reduce the worker's own benefit.
"The downside is it locks in your husband's SS amount because he is filing before his FRA thus also reducing survivor benefits for you in the future," a commenter shared.
The children's checks may also be smaller than a family initially expects. As another commenter noted, "There is also a family maximum that will apply," meaning total benefits paid on one worker's record can be limited.
Commenters also answered the poster's question about what the children's money is meant to cover. Their view was that it is generally for the minors' current support, not something that has to sit untouched until they become adults.
One commenter said a representative payee can use it for "roof over their head, food in the fridge, the electric bill keeping the lights on so they can do homework."
More background
Not every response focused on a downside. One commenter in a similar situation called it "a pleasant surprise" when her husband started collecting Social Security and their three children qualified as well.
Others emphasized how temporary the arrangement is. One commenter warned that "the real catch people miss is that these auxiliary benefits end when the kid turns 18 (or 19 if still in high school) and then your household budget hits a brick wall."
That temporary bump in income can shrink in stages, and the loss may land at the same time as other big costs, including college.
Some commenters also pointed to additional complications, including the retirement earnings test for a parent who keeps working before reaching full retirement age, as well as possible confusion involving taxes and college financial-aid forms.
While this Social Security income for a dependent does not affect the future lifetime earning total the parent can collect once the children each age out of the benefit, there is a family maximum benefit that usually ranges from about 150% to 180% of the earner's primary benefit, as covered in further detail by the Social Security Administration.
What's being done
The original poster didn't chime in on which path they intended taking. Ultimately, any arrangement they pick will include some tradeoffs.
They can have more help in the short-term by putting the rest of their household on it, but that might make things tighter in the future when they possibly will need it more.
"The biggest thing is not to get used to the [extra] money as income because it will all go away when the youngest child turns 18 or graduates high school," a Reddit user opined, referring to the funds for the children. "But it's a nice bonus while it lasts."
Where can I learn more?
Questions about Social Security can spill into bigger conversations about family budgets and other costs cropping up around the country.
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